Greetings, heRO seems nearly a perfect match for what you're asking ^_^
1. Server rates: 5/5/3 + 2x for quest at present and +5% exp per party member in share.
2. Languages: English is undoubtedly the main language. All GM speak English of course, but it's also part of the rules that any player should be able to communicate in basic English to be able to follow rules and comply with bot checks, the @main is also English only.
3. Maximum Level/ Job Level: 99/70 for trans, the usual.
4. Stats Distribution: Max 99 all stats and max ASPD of 190.
5. Population range: we have a very friendly community, and although I will agree that oftentimes larger community lack friendlyness I can assure you that it's not the case, we have 300+ players online and it's composed of a majority of nice individuals, the server is lively and the atmosphere is great. (the population mentioned includes about 100 vends)
6. Server geographical location: North America, hosted in a professional facility on a high speed line.
7. Episodes: We have a lot of the 13+ episode features, albeit not all, we're working hard to implement them in a timely manner. We have our own version of the Infinity Tower as well as our own revision of the new world to be more accessible to players, Manuk/Splendide/Brasilis town have been added, but are currently used in events only.
8. All sets of Pets: We have a lot of pets, including all iRO ones, some kRO ones were released for Halloween and a few custom for the look.
http://forum.hero-server.net/showthread.php?tid=27919. No OVERPOWERED donations - balanced between non-donators or donators.
We have at heart to preserve this balance, which is why we only offer chance items for donations, such as OBB and OPB, all of which are available in game to any players willing to work a bit. The best proof that the balance is kept is that most players who would be considered top-tier are not donator, donating to heRO will not make anyone godly, at best a bit of zeny can be generated from the rewards, but there are countless other ways to get rich in the game.
a) No weird wings - AVOID this if your server has!, weird weapons (custom weapons welcomes if it is quest for everybody).
We do have wings but they are not related to donations whatsoever, they are either quest or from a special monthly event called the Trials of Heroes. The wings are definitely for everybody. We don't currently have any custom weapon.
10. Balanced PvP - Fairly balanced I'd say, at least as much as Gravity balanced it, there's a lot of every class.
11. Balanced WoE - There are 3 castle open, 2 regular and 1 retro (pre-trans classes only), we like to try and keep a good competition. WoE chest rewards have been enhanced to try to promote it further.
12. This is a MUST Quests: Job Quest are present, we have no job changer nor platinum skill giver. We don't have any MVP arenas, however we have public and private DB rooms and Bloody Branch are often given as rewards in event and some custom quests.
13. No wipe ever - the server has been open for 4+ years now, we promised to never wipe and have kept our promise and will keep it in the future too, we never had any rollback either.
14. Friendly website and forums - I'm not sure how much a website can be friendly, but I'll you be the judge:
http://www.hero-server.net/Forums are active, lively and generally nice, there is the occasional debate but it's very tame compared to other servers.
15. Lastly but not least: always available except maintenance, any maintenance is announced ahead, we're professional when it comes to that sort of thing, you don't have to worry on availability.
a) server should provide: Full Installer and/or Lite Installer - of course, we offer both. We also have alternate clients that you can download with different @main colours and a no-death-window client too (less chance of misclick when you die, pres ESC manually to bring up the window).
1. should be exactly the same as iRO (monster, drops, and maps) we are a custom server, but in terms of monsters drops and maps we have retained the original RO, we however have added some maps of our own, as well as a few custom monsters. We also have numerous custom quests, special events, a stylist with lots of colors and hairstyles, etc.
2. need party or guild that help some newbies - we do have one guild whose purpose it is stated to be to help newcomers (Bamboo Squad), you can also seek any help needed from players on @main, specially if it's for questions or advice.
I can really assure you we have a nice community but it's best if you be the judge, I hope you give our server a try ^_^
www.hero-server.net